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I'm Lilyan, and I'm passionate about helping you navigate Christian dating & thrive in your godly relationships!
Check out my Book!
Waiting and Dating explores the dynamics of singleness and dating from an Orthodox Christian perspective. It explores why, when, how, and who to date, while also tackling topics like purity, sexuality, temptation, and repentance. Tailored to older teens and young adults, the book aims to offer a balanced approach to dating while contemplating the wisdom of the Bible, the Church Fathers, and the Orthodox Church. The author, drawing from personal experiences and coaching expertise, addresses the challenges that young people face today and provides guidance for navigating relationships with spiritual integrity.
Also available on Amazon Kindle.

Praise for Waiting & Dating
"No relationship will contribute more to your satisfaction (or dissatisfaction) in life than marriage. And the starting point of every marriage is dating: Dating lays the foundation upon which marriages are built. So I’m so glad to see a book addressing this important subject and giving us practical tips on how to approach this critical phase in a godly manner—all based on the timeless wisdom of our ancient Church Fathers." - Fr. Anthony Messeh, author of Whatever, God
"I am grateful for Lilyan Andrews and her voice in the Orthodox community, encouraging healthy relationships and having the courage to discuss issues that are often dismissed or ignored! If you are looking to get healthy and engage in healthy dating, her book is an important resource!" - Debra Fileta, M.A., LPC National Speaker and Bestselling Author of Reset
"Dating can be such a confusing time, full of both uncertainty and exhilaration. While dating, we often struggle to let our faith serve as our firm foundation. In this book, we find not only a helpful guide to dating, but the spiritual wisdom we need to make choices that transcend cultural tides and help us honor God as we navigate one of the most important decisions we make in adulthood." - Dr. Roxanne K. Louh, PsyD, Licensed Psychologist, coauthor of Renewing You and 6 Hours, 7 Lessons
"Waiting and Dating is a timely and rewarding book: The reward comes in the form of liberating insights about the real world of real dating. For young people, and for older people trying to help them, this book can be a luminous beacon. Lilyan writes clearly and convincingly, and her book might be best summed up with her own words, “We need to keep in mind that the fundamental goal of marriage is holiness, not temporary happiness.” I highly recommend Waiting and Dating as a guide through the turbulent waters of the cultural dating scene." - Albert S. Rossi, PhD, Clinical Psychologist and Author
"We've suffered through so many dating books that never gave us a full and balanced understanding of purity, dating, and marriage in a Christian context. Lilyan’s book puts an end to this, offering a clear-cut, balanced, and theologically sound Christian roadmap to pure relationships that lead to holy marriages. She clearly debunks some huge myths about dating, sex, and marriage that still prevail, but with a warm heart and a kind tone that invites her readers to seek something better—the holy lives, whether married or single, that God desires for us. I'm so thankful I'll be able to hand this book to my own children when they start asking questions about dating!" - Phoebe Farag Mikhail, author of Putting Joy into Practice






![Have you ever had a desire that you prayed about from the depth of your heart? The reason for a rippled ache in your soul. A good desire, a godly desire, even. Rightly justified and Biblically blessed.
I know I have. And I think it’s safe to say we all have.
❣️Maybe you’ve been waiting for years to find the right lifepartner and still haven’t had any relationship work out.
🤱🏻Maybe you‘ve waited month after month for God to fill your womb with new life, but all the tests are still negative.
🏥Maybe you’re fighting a cruel disease, riding a roller coaster of emotions as you enter every doctor’s visit, hoping to finally get off this terrifying ride.
💼 Maybe you’ve worked hard to land your dream job, only to face a steady stream of rejections while praying for just one acceptance…
[Read the rest on my Substack: Sacred Ordinary Vol.3 | Unmet Desires]
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![“Toward the end of last year I noticed my mind and soul getting a little restless. There was a constant hum following me everywhere, like an unwelcomed lingering shadow. I’m not proud to admit the source of the problem was the little pink and orange camera app on my phone: Instagram.
I click and see an onslaught of curated content. Scroll. An influencer convincing me I need those boots. Scroll. A new podcast episode just released. Scroll. The devastating scenes in Gaza. Scroll. My friend’s cute family outing. Scroll. A new toxin we should be avoiding in our food. Scroll. An engagement announcement. Scroll. Another mass shooting. Scroll. A funny parenting video. Scroll, click, tap, open, swipe, and scroll some more for another hit of dopamine… it never ends.
Our brains were not made to consume this much content…”
[Read the rest of the article on my Substack!]](https://scontent-iad3-1.cdninstagram.com/v/t51.82787-15/615722885_18092538397958419_7709635364038759189_n.jpg?stp=dst-jpg_e35_tt6&_nc_cat=107&ccb=7-5&_nc_sid=18de74&efg=eyJlZmdfdGFnIjoiRkVFRC5iZXN0X2ltYWdlX3VybGdlbi5DMyJ9&_nc_ohc=jAbBhAk7UZkQ7kNvwHttE1i&_nc_oc=AdnAfd23tRQyGN1gP0_4i0ehKeaLBhsX2W3enmzxps55umoAcgCxVUSGldiqaT5IRR8&_nc_zt=23&_nc_ht=scontent-iad3-1.cdninstagram.com&edm=ANo9K5cEAAAA&_nc_gid=w3w4HBa-I7V0rHszdmyTkA&oh=00_AfriEGVULw-DvAgAsjRk7N4iGF_5x6IPJhwYQf9IN3UWJw&oe=697A83AB)













































